Decision-making is easier when you look at all the options first and thennarrow things down. Here's one technique that may help.
Difficulty: Easy
Time Required: varies
Here's How:
- Brainstorm. Generate a list of as many different options as you can.
- Narrow the options - keep the ones you are really interested in
- List the advantages and disadvantages of each remaining option
- Pay attention to how you feel about each option - not just what you think.
- Narrow your choices to 2 or 3 options.
- Divide a piece of paper in 2 columns - advantages and disadvantages.
- Make sections for your 2 or 3 choices and fill-in the grid with advantages and disadvantages.
- Again notice your feelings as well as your thoughts.
- Use this paper to help you decide - the answer may jump out at you.
- Talk with a friend about your decision - you may be overlooking something.
- Announce your decision to someone after you make it. This commits you to take action.
- If you continue to have trouble making a decision, ask yourself if there is some benefit to being indecisive.
Tips:
- Do not eliminate any options during the brainstorming stage.
- Talking with a few trusted friends can be a big help - especially with big decisions.
- Consult loved ones if the decision will have a major effect on their life.
